Three Legit Reasons To Get Back Together With An Ex
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Breaking up is hard to do. Your emotions are all over the place and more often than not, you turn to your friends for advice. Most friends will probably greet you with the infamous line, “Remember why you broke up, he is your ex for a reason.” Your friends are right, but it still sucks! What if the reasons you broke up are fixable? Maybe a little bit of time, space, understanding, and true love can heal all wounds.
We all have heard stories about the couple that met, dated, broke up, and didn’t speak for years. Then, years later, that same couple finds each other again and gets married. So what changed? As someone who loves this type of reconciliation story, I started asking friends, family, and even some of my exes if they believe in this type of rekindled love too. Would they ever get back together with an ex? Everyone I spoke to agreed on the following three reasons why they would get back together with a past love.
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1. Timing is Everything:
You met at the wrong time in your life. You were stressed out from work, your family, and friends. In some cases, you may have been healing from the wounds of your past, or the two of you just simply had some growing up to do! All of these examples are common obstacles every person deals with during the different stages of their life. You may not have been complete enough to be a compliment to anyone’s life. Now, if you two meet again, you will be in a different place in your growth and the timing might be better for the two of you to stay in love- the second time around.
2. Emotionally Not Ready:
When you met your ex you were just not there emotionally. When I met the love of my life, I thought I was in a way better emotional state than I actually was; however, as the months progressed, so did my insecurities. My fears had nothing to do with how he loved me, because he loved me big. The problem was that I felt inadequate to that big love and I pushed him away because I wasn’t emotionally ready to accept it. After the break up and space, I found a better understanding of who I am. Now, I am way more secure in myself than I was when we were dating.
3. New Perspective
Look at love and yourself in a new way. I always try to find the light at the end of the tunnel after a break up. I try to find a lesson in the pain, because there is always something to be learned from a broken heart. The trick is to find the lesson and look at it as a positive. I know this concept is easier said than done, but with your new perspective comes a newfound appreciation for your lost love. This fresh outlook allows you to find respect and understanding for your past relationships.
What are some of your reasons you would get back with an ex?
T: Moderndaygf
Relationships are derived from trust, along with the cornerstone of this trust is surely an exclusive physical bond. When one of many partners violates that trust by being unfaithful, the setback is actually difficult to recover from.